Happy Halloween my Confidently Awkward peeps… I hope you all missed me because I missed you! So as you see from the title, there’s no hidden meaning, no underlying messages going on. This is a blog that I’m sure many of you will and can relate to.
Have you ever just linked up with your girls or guys and you start reminiscing on the good old days. Like “my ex-girlfriend Tiffany had a big ol’ booty” or “my ex-boyfriend Marcus was the sweetest guy ever, but he had some Mental Health issues.” Sorry for overgeneralizing that guys only look at our physical appearance, but you know what I’m getting at. Lol. You think about what could have been said and what should have been done and somewhere in the back of your mind you start thinking of scenarios of it all working out and that maybe you can rekindle something with that person, get married, have kids, and walk off into the sunset. Sounds good right?! It damn sure sounds good to me… but your EX is an EX for a reason!!!
So let’s scratch the fact of you and this person ever getting back together. Let’s pose the question, “Can I ever be friends with my ex?!” Me being the optimistic person that I am, I take the point of “sure why not, what’s the worst that could happen?” There’s nothing wrong with being JUST FRIENDS and I feel like guys have the perspective of why the hell not, it’s fine! Well I’m here to tell you folks, forget that nonsense… YOU CAN NEVER BE FRIENDS WITH YOUR EX!!! YOU GOT THAT? GOOD!!! And yes I am yelling at you in all of those capital letters! Lol
So let’s just paint a picture… let’s just say hypothetically I could be friends with my ex, what would both parties want this to look like?!
- Both parties creating boundaries
- No SEX.. yes NO SEX!!!
- No one gets in their feelings
- Don’t ever EVER bring up the past
- Hangout every once in a while, but the other doesn’t get in their feelings if the other cancels
- Possibly talk about girl/guy problems
- Relationship problems
- Oh and did I say this already… NO SEX!!!
Now let me explain to you what really happens…
- Someone gets in their feelings
- Someone brings up the past
- Y’all end up having sex
- One person has more feelings than the other
- One person is not physically or even remotely attracted to the other anymore
- REJECTION!!!
- Can never talk about relationship problems
- Some very awkward situations
- Afraid to hurt the others feelings
So if you ever see your ex it’s okay to nod, but make sure your ass keeps walking. Don’t stop and have a conversation, don’t exchange numbers!!! Wish them well in your head and keep it moving… you ain’t got time to go backwards. Your life is in front of you, not behind peeps! And honestly who can say that the people they have dated prior to their ex has been any worse… a show of hand please. Definitely not me! Which goes back to my statement of your EX is your EX for a reason! Don’t give new life and energy to something that was toxic and you didn’t grow up and glow up from… you catch my drift?! Okay good!
I think my Confidently Awkward peeps have gotten the memo and in this letter you will read, feel free to use it, take certain phrases you might need, throw in a name or two in it, but here’s a letter to my EX…
Dear EX,
Trey Songz said it best, “There’s just no way we can be friends.” You were my past and in my past you shall stay! No more calling me bae. Reaching out to say hey. Those days are over and there’s no more they. “Us” doesn’t exist… please resist, hitting me up to take me out. Yeah that shit sounds good no doubt! But fuck that, when you had a chance you didn’t do right by me… now you out here looking for a new me! But you didn’t know, that Brittani A.D Walker is one of a kind?! I know that rattles and goes around and around in your mind. Your services are no longer needed, you were whack in more than one way. There’s nothing more to say. You were an ass and I’m glad you’re treating ol’ girl well. Just give me back all the money I spent on you through the mail (it’s illegal to send money through the mail, don’t do that lol). The end is always the beginning on a new chapter and let’s just say I got my Happily Ever After!
-Sincerely, I will NEVER EVER BE YOUR BAE, FRIEND, NOTHING!!!
So I don’t know how my letter turned into a poem, but that’s the creative side in me and I’m secretly a rapper! LOL! So I mean if you’re bored or think I’m completely wrong about being friends with your EX, drop a comment and we can get the conversation going!
This is a safe, fun, and nonjudgmental space… use it for those purposes!
But until next time peeps continue to be CONFIDENTLY AWKWARD… UNAPOLOGETICALLY that is!!!
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